While judgement is something we as humans seem to do so often, we really are not that good at it.
“If someone isn't what others want them to be, the others become angry. Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how other people should lead their lives, but none about his or her own.”
In my life I have been given many chances to judge others. Sometimes I get it right, but most of the time I get it wrong. I have found it much easier when I try to love my brothers and sisters for who they are, and not for what I think they should be, or should have done, or didn't do and so on and so forth.
Who am I to judge someone when I myself am far from perfect? And yet, I do it everyday. I wake myself up and I put on my judging glasses and look to see what I can find. And do you know what I usually find? In all of my judging glory, and in all of my self-righteousness, I find that I didn't see a thing at all.
I hope that I can improve my way of seeing others. I pray that as a nation and hopefully as the human race we will follow this wonderful council by a man who is dear to my heart:
“Be the one who nurtures and builds. Be the one who has an understanding and a forgiving heart one who looks for the best in people. Leave people better than you found them.”
I always love to hear your thoughts.
Lots of love,